This was an exhaustingly long article just to say that the men you met didn’t live up to your standards. Everyone can write an entire book on how their dates don’t live up to their standards and expect them to do more. Maybe next time after matching with someone on Tinder or whatever app, send them this article and see if they still wanna meet you. If not, fine, filter worked. But putting all men in the same bucket is just plain wrong. This is the kind of toxic culture that starts gender wars. There is no need for it. Date men that meet your standards.