I feel like something happened during the pandemic. Not sure what. Software engineering teams have lost a lot of women and for the life of me, I can't find out where they've all gone. Another thing that annoys me a bit is when (regardless of gender) people say they're in tech, only to find out they are just people managers, part of the finance team or virtually anything else unrelated to actual tech. I find it disingenuous. Nowadays everyone claims they're in tech, when in fact only 30% (at most) of those folks actually do tech related work.